Person A: Our supervisor, Sally, called a meeting yesterday to
talk about the communication problems in our group. She got the ball rolling by
asking us to talk about the problems we were seeing. She asked us not to name
names.
Person B: So did anybody step up to the plate?
Person A: Not at first. She had to encourage us. She said
that we had to identify the problems before we could find the solutions because
they go hand in hand. Maria spoke up first. She said she didn’t want to step on
any one’s toes, but she thought the workload needed to be divided more evenly. Sally
said that was a good start and that we were on the right track. We needed to
get everything out in the open. She reminded us that no topic was out of
bounds.
Person B: I though Maria brought the same problem up the
last time, but Sally just gave her the runaround then. Sally said she would
check with the vice president and get back to her, but she never did.
Person A: You’re right. I think Sally has been getting the
same comment from other people, so she’s finally ready to listen. Jerry said he
was feeling out of the loop because he doesn’t get included in the planning
phases. Steven got angry about that. He said that if Jerry always says he’s too
busy to come to the planning meetings, then how can he expect to be in the
loop?
Person B: Wow, it sounds like Steven really screwed up when
he lost his temper.
Person A: Yes, I agree. It was very unprofessional. Sally
drew the line and reminded everyone that the purpose of this meeting was not to
get personal and lay the blame but to try
to improve the communication channels. She told Steven to sit down and knock it
off. She said we wanted to discuss his behavior later outside of the group.
They agreed to take it off-line.
Person B: That’s funny. I thought Sally was the one who usually
got angry in the meetings.
Person A: You’re right. She doesn’t exactly walk the talk. I
think she needs to set a better example.
1. Get the ball rolling: start something
He asked the first
question in the meeting to get the ball rolling.
She got the ball rolling
with the new team by asking the staff members to introduce themselves.
2. Step up to the plate: take responsibility
We hope the power company
will step up to the plate and explain the power outrage.
If the mistake is
his, I hope he will step up to the plate and take care of it.
3. Go hand in hand: be associated with; go together
Quality and
efficiency go hand in hand. One usually accompanies the other.
This material goes
hand in hand with the software to guide the user.
4. Step on someone’s toes: get in someone’s way; interfere
with someone’s job or responsibilities
I don’t want to step
on your toes, so let me know if this is OK.
She was unpopular
because she stepped on many toes.
5. Be on the right track: be going in the correct direction
We don’t have the
problem solved yet, but I think we are on the right track.
If he says it’s a
software problem, I think he is on the right track.
6. Out of bounds: not acceptable
He was a problem
student. His behavior was out of bounds, so he was sent to the principal’s office.
That topic is out of
bounds during the meeting. We will discuss it later off-line.
7. Give someone the runaround: not answer a question or
request; send a person somewhere else for an answer
She always gives me
the runaround when I ask her out. Do you think she’s not interested?
I could tell she didn’t
want to answer the question. She just gave me the runaround.
8. Be in the loop/be out of the loop: be included in the communication/not
be included in the communication
Please send her
copies of the e-mail about this so she is in the loop about this new project.
I haven’t received
any information on this project. I am out of the loop on this.
10. Screw up: make a big error or mistake
She screwed up the
order, and we had to start over again.
I usually screw up
when I’m really tired and I keep working anyway.
11. Draw the line: establish limits or boundaries
We have to draw the line
with this customer. They are demanding too much.
Tell them we won’t
make any more design changes.
He drew the line with
his teenage son and told him if he got another ticket, he couldn’t continue driving.
12. Knock it off: stop doing “something” He has an annoying habit of tapping his
fingers on the table, so she asked him to knock if off.
The children were
running around in the library, so the librarian asked them to knock it off.
13. Take something off-line: talk about something
privately/keep confidential
Let’s take this
discussion off-line to deal with the confidential items.
We need to take this conversation
off-line because it’s about the new technology for our company, and that isn’t
public knowledge yet.
14. Walk the talk: do what you say you’re going to do
If you want to be a good
leader, you need to walk the talk so your employees will know you lead by
example.
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